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‘I’m a 25-year-old girl, had twice going out with boys aged 26 and 27 years. Our relationship did not last long, only about six months. I often fight with my girlfriend’s second. I never feel intimate when embraced or kissed by them.

Since four months ago I worked in an office as a secretary. My 55-year-old boss. He’s nice man, looks too cool. Strangely I am very pleased to close my boss. The more so if we were close together, such as the time told me to do something, sometimes I am aroused. Feelings like this do not I ever feel the time going out first.

I beg an explanation, why I never feel affectionate with your girlfriend first, when we age? Why is the boss now, I feel happy to connect and if you note?

Why do I get aroused just by having contact with the boss that my father’s age? What next, will I not be dating a young age? What I experienced a disorder?

W.N., Semarang

Not Sure gerontofilia

I think not that easy to assume you have a disorder. There is a kind of sexual misbehavior that makes people only interested and stimulated to parents. However, I do not dare say you have a sexual deviation called gerontofilia it.

If you feel does not fit and did not intimate with your boyfriend first two, it does not mean you should not be dating and married a man my age or younger age. Maybe just coincidence you experience any incompatibility properties or interests with both a boyfriend first. You may also be less physically attracted to your boyfriend.

Not to mention there might be another factor that makes both you and your boyfriend had mental disabilities. Consequently there is no intimate feelings that you experience.
Then, with another man the same age, not necessarily you experience like that again. If another man the same age you are not experiencing the inhibiting factors such as the above, you will experience a better relationship.

More Mature
If now you feel interested, aroused even with your boss, it might be because of certain factors. You yourself admit, your boss looks nice and cool. From these two factors alone, you already feel there is more to your boss, compared with both your boyfriend first.

Not to mention his personality is far more mature than your boyfriend the same age. There may also be protective properties as you feel from him. Naturally if you feel happy note.

This fact is not an indication you should go out and marry a much older man. There are other problems that might arise from differences in a very remote age. Although at present the elderly does not always mean helplessness or lack of, in the context of husband and wife, a much age difference often cause problems.

In the next trip, you can feel for yourself how your feelings about the young men or peers, and how well your feelings about the man who is much older. Whatever you feel, that’s what’s doing and experiencing in your life next.

I wish every decision concerning the life and future is not taken solely based on emotion, but also based on logic and common sense. If you are still in doubt, please consult further.

Intimate touch without orgasm is like vegetables less salt. Unfortunately, not a few women who experience it. Many factors causing the failure of the sensation of sexual pleasure. For one thing, the psychic burden and lack of an effective stimulus of the pair.

Allegedly, between 20 and 40 percent of married women experienced orgasm dysfunction or difficult to reach the peak of sexual satisfaction. Although quite a lot that are difficult to reach orgasm, it was generally women prefer to talk rather than pretending to be honest with satisfaction. However, no claim is sometimes a little too fake an orgasm to please their partners.

This was reflected from a survey conducted in the United States women’s magazine of 2000 respondents. Known, 35 percent of respondents would prefer an honest answer to the couple about sexual satisfaction and 32 percent said they always used to fake an orgasm but not anymore.

Why lie? 60 percent of respondents answered to make their partner feel satisfied and 35 percent said that sexual relationship soon ended! “Sometimes I fake orgasms because it was sleepy. However, my husband did not show signs will round out the sex,” says Lisa (42), one of the respondents.

Psychiatric Anita Clayton, MD, said the men need to be appreciated so that we do not need to pretend. “Every man would want to satisfy their partner, but how he can do it if we are not honest in his business?” said the author of Satisfaction: Woman, Sex and the Quest for Intimacy this.

To know is not only just a disappointed woman. One man who failed to bring her partner to reach orgasm is also felt disappointed because of their sexual relationship lasted no harmony. If not immediately addressed, then this could result in loss of sex drive, both men and women.
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KOMPAS.com – Almost every man will experience prostate problems in his life. Besides very annoying, this problem also bodes passage of youth. Prostate disorders rarely attack men under the age of 45 years. There are many ways to maintain prostate health. One way is to ejaculate regularly.

Prostate gland is found only in this man surrounds the urethra, the channel where the flow of urine from the bladder to the tip of the penis. Prostate gland plays an important role in the reproduction process, which is producing the majority of the fluid that mixes with sperm to form semen.

Some urologists believe, there is a relationship between prostate cancer and those who rarely ejaculate. Basic thoughts about this way. To produce cement, prostate require substances from the blood as zinc, sitrik acid, and potassium and compact. All carcinogens in the blood are also compressed. Rather than make things better carcinogen had been removed. Well, sex can resolve this.

Research has shown that more frequent ejaculation reduces the risk of prostate cancer. However, the key not only in sexual relationships. Because, a man who likes to have sex with many couples actually got prostate cancer risk rises to 40 percent. If you want to remove it, then masturbation may be an option.

leucorrhoea or vaginal discharge of excess is usually accompanied with itching and less savory flavor disturbing. “The liquid that comes out can be white, yellow, greenish, reddish because even mingled with blood,” said Dr. Iskandar SpOG Sugi Suhandi from RS Mitra Kemayoran, Jakarta.

This is different from ordinary mucus discharge or mucus physiological colored nodes. Whitish an itchy and smelly is an indication of a pathological condition that requires treatment.

The cause could be due to infection leucorrhoea, foreign objects in vagina, even malignancy (if the liquid that comes out very smelly). Course of treatment tailored to the cause. “If the cause of infection, whether infection with bacteria, fungi, parasites, or other, then adjusted to the germs that cause can be identified through laboratory examination,” continued Sugi.

If the cause is the presence of foreign bodies in the vaginal foreign body should be removed. And if whiteness emerged from cancer then the cancer must be treated.

To prevent whitish, continued Sugi, women need to maintain the hygiene of intimate organs. For example, properly washed intimate organs, ie pull the hand from front to back, rather than vice versa. Not used panties that are too tight or from materials that do not absorb sweat. “This can cause excessive moisture in the vicinity of intimate organs, therefore easier to grow mushrooms,” explained Sugi.

Also avoid changing sex partners because whiteness can be transmitted through sexual intercourse. Be careful using shared objects, whiteness also be transmitted through contact with objects contaminated by germs or bacteria.

- emotional pressures within both the cause of work, family, finances, or anything else, so they can lower sex drive or libido. How stress affects men and women, and what kind of impact on sexual relations?

* Fidget reduce sexual mood, or make sex fugitive
Would be difficult to get a sense of sexual emotion when your mind is focused on the problem of debt, or if problems in the family burden of your mind. Dr D Ashley Hill, from the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Family Practice Residency Florida Hospital, Orlando, said men and women respond differently to stress, as well as in relation to sexual relations. Women are generally not in the mood to have sex in stressful conditions. Whereas men use sex as a way of reducing stress.

Nevertheless, the stress of heavy equipment to make sex disappear. This condition is called sexual desire disorder hypoaktif. Symptoms, you and your partner do not get sex fantasies and desires. If you already like, counseling and psychotherapy must be a solution.

* Libido decreased, deteriorating lifestyle
Couples who experience decreased libido problems might seek help from drugs. It should be understood, that the libido is not just a hormonal problem. Citing Psychology Today, stress, mental health, vascular health, and nutrition, is a number of factors that can affect sex drive. Stress reducing testosterone levels.

Those who experience decreased libido may also be transferred to the problem of alcohol, cigarettes and food. Finally, the condition actually got worse with unhealthy lifestyles. We recommend that you do sports, yoga, or meditation to cope with libido problems. Adequate rest and diet can also be applied to start a healthier lifestyle.

* Intimacy and healthy relationships in pairs to beat stress
Sex has the ability to reduce stress. To be more passionate sex, intimacy in relationships is needed in pairs. Intimacy can reduce stress levels, particularly in employment, as reported by research on Medical Psikomatik 2008.

The researchers conducted a study with a sample of 51 couples work, by measuring the mood and activity. A more intimate couples have lower levels of cortisol, ie sex hormone that increases the reaction. Couples with positive relationships and healthy sexual relationships, more resilient against stress.

Should begin to identify and improve how you and he’s paired relationships. In addition to complete the course before the stressor, and live a healthier lifestyle. If it has been this way, sex was not just escape for a man, and unpleasant for women.

Physician experts seksologi and andrology from the University of Udayana, Bali, Prof Dr dr Wimpie Pangkahila Sp And, judging, if Alterina Hofan true Klinefelter’s syndrome, a man who is now curled up in Rutan Pondok Bambu was no question of sexual orientation .

According to Prof. Wimpie, men with Klinefelter syndrome are not categorized as having irregularities or abnormalities of sexual orientation. Although women who have sex chromosomes more, this syndrome is a man with normal sexual appetite.

“If it’s true Klinefelter’s syndrome, he will not experience sexual deviations such as transvestites. If a transvestites feel as a woman’s soul but the physical is male,” he said when contacted Kompas.com Wimpie, Wednesday (05/05/2010).

Klinefelter syndrome can also have sex as usual, although not able to fertilize an egg cell as a condition of pregnancy. “Although small testes and penis, during sex can still excrete sperm but inside there is no sperm cells,” said Wimpie.

Wimpe further explained, are physically men with Klinefelter syndrome have a small penis and testes and body muscles are not developed. Other physical characteristics of the lower limbs are much longer, for example, have a lower leg bones are longer.

Patients also experience sexual dysfunction caused by low hormone testeron. Due to lack of this hormone, breast, this syndrome can be enlarged. “Consequently, it could be mistaken for a woman,” he added.

Never recognized women
Alter based on the description of his lawyer, Ibnu Siena, was never identified as female. He was born as a male. However, due to hormonal abnormalities in the genitals and then, Alter regarded as a woman so in women’s birth certificate was written.

As an adult, physically husband of Mary Jane was proved to have male genitals. However, because the chromosomes also have the disorder, he also had breasts. Therefore, in early 2006 he underwent surgical removal of the breast.

Alter has also been examined by a forensic expert forensic Dr. Munim Idris on October 20, 2009. He stated as the man who has the disorder, known as Klinefelter syndrome medical term.

Prof. Wimpie add, if this syndrome is left, the sufferer will not be able to live a comfortable and normal. Doctors can usually patient’s life quality improvement with testosterone therapy.

“The form can be an injection or pill form. The aim is only to improve the quality of life of patients, namely that more muscles can develop optimally. Similarly, sexual functioning,” said Wimpie.